"The core issue was Six Moon Designs (SMD) sent a defective item. When the customer decided to cancel the order because of the defective item, it forced the customer to pay for the shipping."
Yang, I understand you had issues with the product you received and I agree that the NetTent looked defective. But this part makes it sound like you weren't cancelling your order because of quality but because you now had time to wait and were willing to do so so you could get the cuben shelter you really wanted.
>> None of them have been used. So we are fine. I am thinking to return
>> them all and buy them later when your cuben version is in stock.
That's one of the issues I addressed in my response. If you were so put off on this company, why would you then say you'd wait to buy a different product from them?
And this is the key sentence of the whole issue. This is where you said you were thinking of returning both items but SMD did not agree or authorize this. You might have interpreted it that way but it isn't stated explicitly. And that seems to be your whole argument. That you were promised your shipping refunded if you sent everything back AND cancelled your order. It's clear, to me anyway, that he was referring to the 1 lb NetTent and not both items. Again, to me, even if I had thought he said I could return everything, that would have been a red flag in my mind that we weren't on the same page.
I'm not trying to say that this is your fault and you should be vilified but I also don't think that SMD should be vilified either based on this interaction. The communication was just not clear.