Dave,
I think you are spot on.
The important things is to simply get out there and on the trail to enjoy the outdoors.
I don't care if someone is light weight or traditional, HYOH….once we are out there, we are enjoying the same views and the experience of being outdoor.
Yeah, going heavy might hurt a little and make it a little more challenging, but better than sitting infront of a tv your whole life.
Sometimes I think that UL/Lightweight people forget that we/they are on the fringe of the backpacking scene.
I see that the point of UL's effect on the broader group of backpackers is that someone might look at us and say, "Those guys are freaking nuts! But I kinda like the idea of using/doing "XXX"".
The fringe influences the center and move is or draggest it along a little bit "forward".
I am sure that there are a lot of traditional backpackers that are strong and more fit than me who are easily able to carry twice what I do…..works for them, HYOH.
I fact that I CHOSE to go lightweight for MYSELF only means that it is the best choice for ME, not an indictment that EVERYONE ELSE is doing it WRONG.
UL/Lightweight attitudes of arrogance and superiority will only serve to keep UL/Lightweight backpacking at the fringe.
Less passing judgement and simply being an available resources to others on how to go lighter.
Lord knows, I have done my share of preaching UL/Lightweight on the trail to others….my enthusiasm getting the best of me when talking about what I do.
-Tony