david … heres my WAG
1. condensation from the ground … i would rule it out as a major factor unless there was a lot of condensation on the inside of the tarp which dripped onto the bivy itself … this does not seem to be the case … if it was, then thats an issue … note that higher humidity inside the tarp can contribute indirectly and this could add to it
2. rain leakage … again from what i understand it wasnt a major issue … you should have seem splitter splatter onto the bivy if it was
3. condensation from body vapor … from yr description this appears to be the main cause, no doubt the high humidity helped as well … the bivy likely trapped body vapor and contributed as the dew point was very possibly inside the bivy, or even inside the quilt at times … also using synth inside a down bag is not advisable IMO, more on that later … was the bivy all zipped up? … you may want to use an unzipped or mesh bivy next time, or even forgo the bivy if dripping condensation are not issues
now to the synth inside, i generally use synth as the last layer because
a. body vapor will move outwards, and the dew point is usually somewhere in the outer layers … if using down bag, ill put the synth jacket drapped over the outside, that way the dew point is more likely to be in the synth jacket … if using a synth bag and down sweater, ill wear the down inside the bag for the same reason
b. outside condensation such as drips, splashes, or just condensation from yr bivy will end up on the synth rather than the down shell … protecting yr down bag better
c. generally you want the "warmest" layer next to you, same concept as you dont want air pockets in yr sleeping bag as youll need to heat them up and they are less insulating than yr bag … synth is generally less insulating than down, so you want the down close to yr body
i would recommend layering the synth over the down, ventilating the tarp as well as possible, unzipping or even not using a bivy
with a fully protected pyramid tarp you could probably get away with just putting yr synth jacket and a layer over the bag … if you do use a bivy, keep yr synth jacket between yr quilt and the bivy for the reasons mentioned above … and take off all wet clothes before getting into a down bag, just layer them on top of yr synth jacket of needed
you can also use a hawt nalgene for pushing out the moisture out of the system … also try renewing the DWR on yr quilt with spray on, might help in the future …
or use a cats meow like i do ;)
thats my opinion anyways without seeing the actual conditions and setup
hope that helps