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Nick Gatel BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 7:35 am

Apparently Bob’s account was inactivated, or at least that is what he thinks happened. No one from BPL has contacted him. Perhaps it was hacked?

What has Bob done wrong?

Unless I missed something, Bob’s “questionable” behavior was that he was almost always right. He had a habit of pointing out inaccurate information or poorly written posts/articles. His observations were not personal, just the facts. The only time I saw him make a remark of a personal nature was when someone personally attacked him, which he usually handled with unexpected grace.

A couple times Bob pointed out something I had written that was not correct. I didn’t take it personally; I used it as good feedback. At times when I post something that I think will be useful, I think to myself, “What will Bob think?” And then I take a little more time to ensure it is clear and concise, or even check my facts further. All of this is a good thing.

Apparently Bob is a private person. I do have his email, as I tried to buy some obsolete gas canisters from him a few years ago. My 2nd email correspondence was with him this morning. He has no idea what has happened, other than he cannot log on. He is leaving on a trip for the mountains, which seems what more people here should be doing.

If, in fact, Bob’s account has been suspended or closed, I think it is a travesty for BPL. If he has said something improper, BPL management should try to contact him and resolve whatever issue is at hand. Maybe I don't have all the facts. It still remains, that over the years, Bob has been a valuable contributor to the BPL forums.

More concerning to me is the unprecedented amount of slanderous personal attacks by other BPL members over the past few months, along with the constant complaining and whining about just about everything here. It is never ending. I am getting to the point I don’t want to participate here any longer. It truly is not an issue with the BPL ownership or moderators. BPL is just an Internet forum, much of it free or of minimal cost. BPL is deteriorating fast, not because of how it is managed, but it is rotting from the inside out: due to the inappropriate, vicious behavior of a few. A few who are making this no longer a nice place to visit. This is the problem with BPL. Not RJ, not RC, and not BG.

I ask everyone, going forward, to think about anything you post. Are you being nice? If not, don’t post it. Being nice doesn’t mean you are compromising. It means you are being respectful and courteous — that is how mature, civilized people behave.

Dave @ Oware BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 7:54 am

Self moderation (with a sense of humor) and new insights on how to do things or think about things is what keeps me reading.

Jerry Adams BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 8:05 am

Like you said, "BPL is just an Internet forum"

I am mentally prepared for any internet forum I while away (or is it wile away?) my time on to disappear at any moment

I don't know that things are worse now than other times, although things go in cycles?

Nice to see Nick posting more, seems like he did less for a while. c'mon, post something on chaff : )

I kind of ignore the B.S. As long as there are a lot of good ideas in the flow, it's a good thing. If everyone agreed with me, or with each other, it would be boring and of less value.

HkNewman BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 10:01 am

Add it probably had something to do with a new employee, contractor, or whoever they get to write up an article besides regulars. Personal disagreements or even attacks among members are nothing new here, … there's old posts of one poster threatening to shoot another (with a posse lol) from 2008 (granted Chaff), … found by researching some gear designs that have been around. Ed: add, br, and homogenized

PostedJun 17, 2015 at 10:31 am

We're defending Bob behavior when it sounds like BPL hasn't accused him of anything?

Silly questions, is it time to renew his membership?

Could be an error in they're spam blocker. I'm somehow banned from a gardening forum I've never participated on because I tried to access it from work where we share IP addresses…

Since BPL is a paid forum, I'd anticipate they'd get back to bob soon with a resolution or explanation.

I appreciate Bob's participation around here. And I wouldn't mistake a few odd nuts and bolts, as a community wide degradation. Ask the right question, and several names pop up I've been appreciating for years. That remains unchanged.

[ Drew ] BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 11:17 am

"Could be an error in they're spam blocker."

'Could be an error in they are spam blocker.'

They are spam blocker?

–B.G.–

Bean BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 11:38 am

At times when I post something that I think will be useful, I think to myself, “What will Bob think?” And then I take a little more time to ensure it is clear and concise, or even check my facts further. All of this is a good thing.

I've held back on a lot of initial complaints about some equipment I just tried out, because of a slight anxiety that Bob will point out how it was user error, not the fault of the item. Then I go read FAQ and dig in BPL forums, to attempt to eliminate the possibility I was doing something wrong. About half the time, I find some bit of information that changes my perspective quite a bit.

jscott Blocked
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 11:51 am

Let's not overdo the love or Bob will be insufferable when he comes back.

edit: oops, I thought that I was posting this on the OTHER BG thread, where it made more sense as a hopefully funny caveat.

Ian BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 1:05 pm

"Let's not overdo the love or Bob will be insufferable when he comes back."

Truth. He's a royal PITA. But, he was done dirty here and it's not right.

I wonder sometimes if Jack Nicholson's character in As Good As It Gets was inspired by Bob.

Bean BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 2:35 pm

Let's not overdo the love or Bob will be insufferable when he comes back.

Likely, but it could be worth it.

I think the forums are really the main tangible value to this website currently (at least to me), and that people like Bob and their above average participation helps keep this place active and interesting. BPL's backend crew hopefully sees this outcry over the moderating crackdown and embraces this as an opportunity to contemplate how to harness the thrust of such free resources as compulsive contributors and market starved cottage manufactures, rather than stifling and suppressing them until they get discouraged to the point of looking elsewhere.

Of course, you can't please everybody, or you'll lose your ass:


Little Boy & Old Man An old man and a little boy on a donkey were on their way into town. They passed by a group of people who said, "What a shame for that old man to be walking while that perfectly able-bodied boy rides that donkey." So the boy got off the donkey and the old man got on. They later passed by some more people who said," Why should that little boy have to walk when they have a donkey to ride on. So the little boy got on the donkey and they both rode it. After a while, they passed some more people. They overheard the people say, "That poor donkey must be wore out from carrying both of them." So the little boy and old man picked up the donkey and started to carry it. They were carrying the donkey across a bridge. The weight of the donkey became just too unbearable and slipped from their grasp and went over the side of the bridge into the water and drowned. The moral of the story is: If You Try To Please Everyone You'll Eventually Lose Your ASS!

source: http://www.jokes4us.com/animaljokes/donkeyjokes.html“,Beeen”

[ Drew ] BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 3:11 pm

The moral of the story is:

Don't carry your donkey over a bridge. It's irrational and irresponsible. And possibly "irregardless" of life.

Roger Caffin BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 4:48 pm

Actually, the real moral of the story is that you should use your own brains and not be entirely dependent on what other plebs say.

But that would not make such an amusing story.

Cheers

Ian BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 5:10 pm

So for me, Shrek started narrating this thread several responses up ^^^^

"Actually, the real moral of the story is that you should use your own brains and not be entirely dependent on what other plebs say."

Are you saying that this is all untrue and Bob is free to post?

"BPL Community Profile
Bob Gross (–B.G.–) – BPL Guest"

John S. BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 5:24 pm

Reminds me of the time I was kicked out of the BPL yahoo group back in 2004 ; ).

Jim Colten BPL Member
PostedJun 17, 2015 at 5:47 pm

More concerning to me is the unprecedented amount of slanderous personal attacks by other BPL members over the past few months, along with the constant complaining and whining about just about everything here. It is never ending. I am getting to the point I don’t want to participate here any longer. It truly is not an issue with the BPL ownership or moderators. BPL is just an Internet forum, much of it free or of minimal cost. BPL is deteriorating fast, not because of how it is managed, but it is rotting from the inside out: due to the inappropriate, vicious behavior of a few. A few who are making this no longer a nice place to visit. This is the problem with BPL. Not RJ, not RC, and not BG.

+1+1+1+1…. that.

Actually, this is an oft repeated pattern in the life cycle of communication mechanisms that enable/allow "speech" without face to face contact. Things often do not take as long to degrade as it has here and I've long been puzzled how we've survived this long. The few forums I know that have avoided this decay have been smallish and often had a high percentage of participants who HAD met face to face. In those instances the slightest hint of uncivil behavior was quickly challenged … that and strong a "don't feed the trolls" ethic was promoted and understood. There is good evidence that micro subsets of BPL have formed as a result of shared trip experiences and the GGG gatherings … many of the people in those groups have moved on to just enjoy each other's company and have either left BPL or rarely participate.

Alex H BPL Member
PostedJun 18, 2015 at 3:46 am

Nick and Jim are absolutely correct in their analysis. Almost all forums start off with a bang and then slow down either because it has all been talked about before or folks get tired of answering the same questions over and over and participation wanes.

People like Bob keep the heartbeat going even during slow times. I have been here from the beginning and I don't notice Bob's posts anymore than anyone else and I don't think that he has ever commented on one my posts. I do notice the attackers and whiners more, but I just ignore them.

Ian BPL Member
PostedJun 18, 2015 at 5:03 am

I'm sure everyone is telling the truth here.

We're only hearing that Bob was locked out through third parties who have his personal email address. I willing to take what they are saying at face value.

It's also possible that Roger is out of the loop and/or doesn't have any control over this situation.

PostedJun 18, 2015 at 5:43 am

@ Richard Reno,
If I'm reading that thread correctly, Roger wasn't referring to Bob Gross, but rather to "Account Closed", the original subject of that thread and therefore no one need be lying.

Ken Thompson BPL Member
PostedJun 18, 2015 at 6:10 am

"@ Richard Reno,
If I'm reading that thread correctly, Roger wasn't referring to Bob Gross, but rather to "Account Closed", the original subject of that thread and therefore no one need be lying."

+1 Talking about someone else entirely.

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