Jerry I like your idea of constructive versus destructive manipulation techniques :) positive mind control… maybe Hiding backwards masked messages in the commercials that, in a creepy monotone voice, say things like “exercise daaaaily, eat heaaaalthier, drink waaaater not sooooda, love yourseeeelf…”
All kidding aside- Diet and exercise seem to go hand in hand ultimately. It’s easy for someone who is naturally thin to judge others weight issues but as mentioned above there really is so many variables in the physiology of each individual. My friend Hoss has lost almost 100 pounds by cutting out 20 beers a day and switching to a plant based diet, no exercise changes… My mother is tall and “big boned” she was quite overweight until her scary stroke (a walnut sized blood clot landed in the base of her brain stem), when she altered her SAD (standard American diet) as a result she has lost over 125 lbs… my brother hasn’t altered his diet really but started fat-biking 5 times a week and has shed over 75 lbs. my good friend Romeo has a thyroid issue which was triggered by anti depressants and he swelled like a raisin in water without changing a thing except the meds. it really is a case by case basis, what might work for me might not work for you as well or at all, however diet and exercise seem to be pretty universally accepted as a good place to start, not to mention a positive attitude. Acquiring the knowledge and mustering the gumption to start making major life changes are the first and likely hardest steps to take down that path… it can be extremely daunting, emotionally, psychologically and physically draining to take those steps if you’ve become obese.  Loving yourself despite your weight can be even harder in our culture which is obsessed with how one looks on one hand, and corporations spending billions of dollars manufacturing and advertising over processed food and drink on the other… the obesity rate really has skyrocketed in the past decades.
On a personal note my body type is like my dads, tall(ish) and slender. I don’t wish to proselytize diet choices but I will say I’ve been vegan and vegetarian for 19 years. I have a physically demanding career (I run my own construction business), I have a fast metabolism.  I chose my diet not to lose weight but because I don’t like eating animals. I have sustained 4 back injuries including whiplash, fractured Thoracic vertebrae, I have a compressed disc in my S1-L5 joint and fusIon of those vertebrae. In the past my back would “go-out”, debilitating to the point I can’t stand up for like 15 minutes. this would happen about 3-6 times a year. I also had to deal with an eye opening skin cancer diagnosis 4 years ago which fueled the engine of changing my exercise habits.  After four years of retraining my body I’m glad to say (knock on wood) my back hasn’t gone-out in over 2 years. And after 3 surgeries the cancer is yet to recur…  My weekly plan is this
3 days trail running – 2-6 miles depending on intensity or if I’ve added 40 lbs into my pack for increased resistance.
3 days strength training with free weights-Â total body , not bodybuilder type stuff.
3 days sit-ups and push-ups routine
Stretching daily -nothing fancy- even if only for 5-10 minutes.
i mix these up daily and combine a couple together in one day however I like. Â What drives me most is my wife and son, to be there for them as long as possible…