Two other theories of gear color:
1. Use really bright colors so everyone else in the valley can see you and your campsite.
2. Use muted, more natural colors so as to have less visual impact on other hikers.
I generally practice 2, just like I don't litter, create new campfire circles or cut live trees; but during hunting season, in truly remote areas (i.e. see no one else in 20 miles of hiking), or on more extreme solo trips (where I'm at greater risk of needing to be found), I've got brighter outwear for those times.
Back to one of the OPs thoughts:
A black tent is warmer WHEN IN THE SUN and a white one is cooler. But black tent fabric is cooler on a cloudless night because higher emissivity goes both ways – black objects absorb AND EMIT more infrared radiation. So, other things being equal, the fabric of a black tent will be cooler during a calm, cloudless night and get more condensation on it. You can counter that by camping under a tree or (partially) by setting up next to a cliff or large boulder so your tent doesn't view as much of the clear sky.
Another factor for clothing is mosquitos. I've taken to counting mosquitos on different people's clothing and dark/black clothing always has significantly more mosquitos on it than white/light clothing does. Caveats: While this is great evidence for wearing lighter clothes than other people around you, I'm not sure if, when solo, it makes a difference. I suspect it does, but I don't have the data for that. Also, while a dark tent might attract more mosquitos than a light tent, I don't know how it would effect the ratio of bugs on you versus on the tent. And while dark colors attract more mosquitos, there are far easier to see and kill on light surfaces, so I'd lean towards a light tent for (1) seeing and killing bugs and (2) reduced condensation on clear, cold nights.
Edited because I swapped 1 and 2 in one sentence.