Ahren, there was no hate; some humor and sarcasm, to be sure. You touted yourself as an expert because you worked at REI, which we found laughable. I invite you to sign up at Whiteblaze.net and post the same message. They will serve you up with fava beans and a nice chianti.
As to not getting it, you wrote "The "experts" on here may only be looking at 5 of 40 headlamps. We got to see all 40 and know why they were good or bad choices." The denizens of these fora see far more product than anyone on the floor at REI, and on an international scale. We get to play with them all too. There are a lot of people here doing product testing for manufacturers, and the staff goes to the industry shows and reports back as well. Many others are making their own gear and others are manufacturing some of the best ultralight gear on the planet. There are people here who do actual engineering-level testing on fabrics and insulation. We have found what works and doesn't work the hard way, with leaky tents, flapping soles, broken stoves, failed zippers, bent poles, dead batteries, sore body parts, bugs, heat, cold, storms and mis-planned provisions.
Your heart is in the right place, but your presentation didn't fly, that's all. REI is a well run organization with good quality products and world-class customer service. We shouldn't hold you responsible for any of their marketing issues, but the consensus is that REI is not on the bus to Ultralight. BTW, I have been a member since 1965.
So hang around, do some reading, ask some questions, and please do add to the collective knowledge here. No one wants to run you off, but you did show some ignorance of the community here, in a way I haven't seen in the years I've been on line.
Would you like a little more c-c-c-hianti? :)