I probably shoulda stayed out of the secular aspect; I'm particularly sensitive to such issues right now. FWIW, I actually agree with many of the things Douglas and Anna have just said. I don't think anyone here would condone FGM, genocide, torture, or other such stuff…
My point about striving to understand is that if there's an anti-social (of course, does depend on the society) behaviour that you feel needs to change, you won't get far by telling someone "you're ignorant," or "you're wrong." You can't persuade them to change unless you understand why they're following a particular practice in the first place. Only by fully understanding why they're doing something can you help them make their way to your point of view.
And that's where I'll bring it back to the backpacking aspect! I've found people quite resistant to change from heavy, traditional backpacking styles if I just start off talking about ultralight. But if I start out asking them questions about how and why they travel the backcountry, etc, then I can see which points of UL philosophy might appeal to them the most. Instead of framing discussion in terms of ultralight, I just talk about it as backpacking… 'cause to me, that's really what it's become.
Cheers, and peace-

