John,
please excuse me for weighing in here. being somewhat familiar with the type of person Dr. J happens to be, i’m guessing that he probably will not reply publicly to defend himself. so, withouth getting emotionally involved myself, but attempting to remain as neutral as possible, and even handed, i ask you to please read the following words.
i had some good words about your stoves recently in another thread. please understand that i’m trying to give you some helpful advice using the same medium you selected for the post that i’m replying to.
i have followed all of the posts in multiple threads on the matter of your video & stoves. it seems that several have started to weigh in on your side, supporting you.
this recent post of yours, to which i am replying will, IMHO, most likely have a negative effect on your support and possibly your business (but i sincerely hope that it does not – at least, for my part, i intend to still do business with you and of course BPL).
you wrote “I probably shouldn’t mention this but…”. your “gut” instinct was right. IMHO, you shouldn’t have mentioned it. this would have been better handled (again???) privately with Dr. J.
it’s understandable that your feelings might be injured, but airing publicly a private matter is, IMHO, not a good thing for you (or anyone) – particularly here on this website.
there might be some public service in warning others about a possibly dishonest merchant, or a repeated problem with a merchant, a warning that might affect others, however, in this instance, that’s not the case.
there will be some who read your words and will immediately “take up the offense” (which they shouldn’t) and side with Dr. J, when all of us should just stay out of this (myself included).
for my part, i’ve had nothing but excellent service from Dr. J and his website. likewise, i have had similar excellent service on multiple occasions from MiniBullDesigns. i will not hesitate to do business with either of you again.
i urge you to try to rectify this situation with Dr. J privately. nothing but good can come of it, if calm minds prevail when attempting to resolve all issues involved.
please, if by chance i have further hurt you by my words here, i apologize. i meant no offense. i only wish to offer some helpful (not hurtful) advice. i sincerely hope that all parties involved can come to a peaceful solution to all problems and that this would not only prove mutually beneficial to you both, but to those of us who utilize your respective services.
John, if i may make one further suggestion, please. It might be a good idea (please give it some careful consideration) to remove your recent triple post by replacing all of the text in each one with the words “Post Deleted”. The sooner the better so that as few as possible read them. I do believe that, leaving them intact, will have a negative impact and not produce whatever effect you had hoped for.
Sincerely,
pj
Paul Johnson

