7D and 10D nylon fabrics are on a par with the older spinnaker cloth. They both need some sort of ripstop to handle any tendency to tear. Without a gridded ripstop, they can just continue to run. The micro-ripstop seems OK, but this still can tear.
I personnaly do not believe that current tent fabrics are up to the task of a ten year tent without ripstop or without a relatively high weight penalty. Anyway, I understand about ripsop failures where the thin threads overlap the heavier ripstop threads, thus forcing them to take accelerated abrasion. The solution is to use micro ripstop in selected ways. For example, the low HH means it is not suitable for flooring; low strength means it is not suitable for high wind resistant shelters. To use 10D micro-ripstop fabric for a pack is asking for trouble.
So, it is not so much a fabric issue, it is a matter of shelter design. SilPoly or Membrane is suited to small solo shelters, preferably, <3’high to reduce wind loading and more circular designs increase supported strength/reduce wind loading. 10D SilNylon is suited to somewhat larger shelters, <3.5’high with larger flat panels between supports (a typical diamond type shelter.) 1.2oz Silnylon can be used for up to 4′ high shelters with up to 9′ panels between supports (a typical ‘A’-frame shelter or short 3.6″ lean-to shelter.) Heavier fabrics and different designs will impact this somewhat. For example: a 2 person tunnel tent made with 10D nylon will *just* fall in these general specs. A 10D pyramid will likely fail, though.
As you can see, strength per weight becomes important. To low, and you get a fragile shelter good for below tree line, in a sheltered location. To high and you are carrying excess weight. It does no good to carry a 10pound bomber for solo summer conditions in the north-east…wasted effort. But, you always need some margin for those exceptional trips of stormy, windy, rainy, snowy weather. And, to give your shelter some long term (10 year) durability. You do NOT want to fight with your shelter all night and hike all day.
All things become important. Stitching, thread, hemming, seams, panel strength, supports, staking, reinforcements, fabric, loops, etc… As well as the conditions (worst case) you expect to encounter. (I have taken my shelters through tornado weather, I understand what worst case means…NOT the exceptionally bad case…) As always, the least weight that will do the job is the correct choice. In every case, however, I see little use for poly membranes. Nylon is always a stronger choice for the weight.