If you look at any good quality cottage or commercial shelter they will be using a flat felled seam. It’s been the seam of choice for many decades, because on balance it’s the most functional solution.
My suggestion would be to bite the bullet and learn to sew it. I use the standard basting tape from my local sewing shop and stick everything in place before I start to sew – particularly on longer seams. This greatly deskills the whole process and makes it relatively easy to get a good result, even with slippery silnylon.
Anything else will give you an inferior result, especially if you want a shelter that can cope with a bit of weather.
(The only exception is a seam where you are also sewing in a pole sleeve. If that’s what you need, Roger Caffin has written here about his approach, which has stood the test of time).