I’d also suggest to try to make a trip-specific list to hone in on actual items carried and realistic weight totals. Having the whole kit-n-kaboodle on one list that covers tropic to arctic is only going to confuse things.
For instance, if you’re going on a trip where it’s fairly cool and you’re taking long pants and a long base layer for the bottom, you’re probably not going to need shorts for “hanging out”.
And don’t take so many spares and just-in-case items. You can wash stuff in a 1 gallon Ziploc and a few drops of Dawn detergent (or Dr Bronners), wring it out and hang your pack to dry — the backpacker’s laundromat. Synthetic stuff can dry very quickly if the weather is decent.
And get a good scale accurate to 0.1g. It’ll come in handy now for getting accurate weights and the higher resolution will be greatly appreciated if you get into testing stove fuel consumption.
There’s so much stuff that I’d advise reading through all of Link’s links in your other thread, which will address 99.9% of any questions one might have (and things not anticipated by most of us when we first got into UL).