Thanks everyone, your suggestions really helped me narrow down what I want.
We’re planning to do a lot more hiking and bikepacking this year. I have a couple of Trangias and we’ll take one of those for lazy trips where we want to cook nice meals, but on most of the others we’ll have to carry all our water so we’re minimising weight elsewhere. On these trips we’ll rely on cold food but with a little hot coffee or soup for comfort.
If we were going to get really technical about quantities, I’d say boiling 250ml (8oz) is enough – splitting this into two cups, adding some cold water / milk to each, would give us a reasonable hot drink each. Bigger is fine, but we don’t need pasta pots.
My main desire is to get a cone based setup (convenience, wind protection, efficiency, stability). We’ll carry some alcohol but use wood where we can. Often we’ll be able to just have a camp fire, and having a pair of ti pots rather than one plastic one gives us some flexibility.
The Snow Peak and Evernew options suggested seem fine – I had imagined a pair of mugs of similar proportions, but there’s no reason they have to be. It does look like the trick is to find a pot and cone combination and then add the second pot to the OUTSIDE, rather than the inside where it may not accept the packed cone.
I also found a handy reddit post explaining the difference between the different systems. I’ll repost it here because I thought it was so useful:
Classic: does not fit in your pot. Stored in a plastic caddy that doubles as a pair of coffee cups. Fits a wide variety of pots.
Sidewinder: fits in your pot because it’s short and your pot is wide. Mostly compatible with shorter/wider pots.
Fusion: fits in your pot because it splits in two pieces. Mostly compatible with taller/skinnier pots. Leaves more of the pot exposed to the wind than the Fissure. Also fits slightly different pots than the Fissure.
Fissure: fits in your pot because it splits in two pieces. Mostly compatible with taller/skinnier pots. Extends further up the sides of the pot than the Fusion. Also fits slightly different pots than the Fusion.
Anyway, I’m leaning towards one of the existing two-pot kits suggested, but I’ll also look into whether I can put together something a bit smaller.
Thanks again!