i hike with a few different people, including friends, my husband, and people I don’t know (through a hiking club). Most people don’t pack light, either because they don’t know how, don’t know that it’s possible, or don’t care. My husband for example, will bring all kinds of stuff – like a large bottle or tube of sunscreen for a three day trip. He doesn’t mind the weight; he’s incredibly strong and sturdy. But I’m not, I have to go light, and if we planned together, we could both bring less (sharing toothpaste, soap, sunscreen, a phone, etc.). i have a similar situation with one group of friends in particular, three women, all of whom like to overpack and somewhat expect me to do the same, e.g. bring more food than I agreed to for sharing, being extra fuel although it wasn’t on my list, etc. I’d feel terrible just mooching off these people, even off my old man, but it’s awfully tempting!
Even on trips with folks I don’t know, if we did just a small amount of planning, we could save on some gear – first aid supplies, water treatment, etc.
Any great ideas for negotiation on trip planning and packing? I know a lot of you go alone, maybe for this reason!
