For today’s lightweight gear items, how long do you think different items should last? I realize that’s like asking how long a piece of string is, but I do think we all expect to get a certain lifespan from a backpack, a tent, a mattress pad, etc. I’m talking about good quality gear, not the super cheap stuff.
Sleeping bags probably have the longest life; I still have one from 48 years ago! It’s heavy (synthetic) and kind of ugly, but it’s still durable and works just fine; I mostly lend it for others to use or keep it in my camper as a spare. My Feathered Friends bag gets a lot of backpacking use, but still no leaking feathers. It’s my most treasured gear item and I have a note taped to it in the garage warning anyone who tries to borrow or lend it out that there will be consequences.
Shoes are the least durable it seems to me, at least trail runners, which only get me through a summer of weekend trips, or 2-3 longer trips. A marathon or two or a trip on Sierra granite and the soles are toast.
My current backpack has gone on many miles of adventure and except for a squeak or two, and shoulder straps with permanent aroma, it’s in great shape. I expect to keep it going for the same number of future miles. Same for the stove.
Rain jackets seem to give up after a few seasons.
I’d love to choose gear to last the rest of my lifetime.

