I own or have owned at least 10 Silnylon shelters. ( First bought in 1990s)
And also 2 silpoly shelters.
On Silnylon, if pitched taut and correctly, I find sag only sometimes a problem in low temperatures. I’ve never had an issue with sagging on the Tarptent Notch and Stratospire 2. Even after a night of heavy rain. ( Most used shelters in recent years- both over 100 nights)
Silnylon does absorb a lot of water though, which makes it temporarily heavier if not able to dry before packing.
With silpoly, I find you get a mechanical stretch – even when dry. Large panels can bow in with wind. Last time I used it, I had the end panel of the Xmid1 touching the inner by dry wind bowling it. Similarly, our Trekkertent large panels bowed in more than I’d expect Silnylon to.
Also. Not all silpoly is the same. The fabric on my Trekkertent (RBTR1.1oz) was quite different in look and hand to the fabric used in the XMid.
In conclusion, I think, that apart from water absorption ( which is the main downside of nylon to me), the difference between the fabrics is not so crucial.
I’d choose my shelter model brand based on good design and strong quality build techniques.
I’m not so keen on DCF due to aesthetic, cost/durability and comparative pack size/need to roll rather than stuff. Though Tarptent Li range is tempting.