So if anyone's looking to experiment with frustum cones but isn't sure how, since I just learned, I thought I'd do a quick demo of how I'm doing it. For all you college grads and geometry whiz's, this will seem pretty childish, but it works, and if it's easy enough for an average backwoods traveler like me to figure out, then hopefully others can benefit from it as well. This works for me in practice, so I hope I didn't butcher up the description too badly.
There are only 5 numbers needed.
T = Top hole diameter
B = Bottom hole diameter
H = Height of the finished cone
L = Length of the flat dimension cutout
A = Apex of the full cone height
The first three, T, B and H are simple dimension sizes.
L has to be calculated like this:
L = B * 3.14 + (any overlap for seams) / 4
A is calculated like this:
A = (B * H) / (B – T)
Now with all 5 parameters, a cone can be mapped out on a piece of material pretty easily.
The ready-to-cut map is pictured here for detail.
This one will have a 3.5" top hole, a 6" base and be 4.5" tall.

Start with a square piece of material. I used 12" aluminum flashing, cut to 18 inches long. Draw a horizontal base line along the bottom, leaving enough room for the radius of the cone to dip below it. I just made it one inch from the bottom edge.
Draw a vertical line straigt up the middle. If the material is 18", then measure in 9" from the edge at the top and bottom and connect the points.
Now along the baseline, mark out B, being careful to center it on the verical line.
From the baseline, measure up along the vertical line and mark off A.
Draw a line connecting A to the 2 points on the baseline at the ends of B.
You should now have a triangle depicting a side view of a full cone. Measure up from the baseline somewhere along both edges of the material and mark off T, then connect the points, drawing the line for the top of the cone. Now just to be sure things are going properly, measure the length of T between the two sides of the triangle, to verify it's the correct length.
Now for a compass, my ruler has a hole in the end, so I just stuck a thumbtack through the aluminum at A, and taped a scrap piece of material with a notch cut in it, to the ruler at the appropriate places and guided a marker around the radii.
The arcs are formed where the points from B and T intersect with the sides of the triangle formed when A was connected to B at each end of the baseline.
All that's left is figuring out how long to cut it off at, and drawing some spacer lines for punching the holes. And whatever you decide for a seam, but that's up to you. So from center of the baseline where the vertical line meets, measure out L in a straight line on either side and mark where L intersects the outer arc. Do this twice, to make a total of four segments to the total length. I then set my ruler along the tack as an edge guide and drew lines for the ends of the material and for where I wanted my holes. I just spaced lines a half inch apart, as that worked for my overall sizing.