Ryan,
Thanks for posting and I am sorry that you have a sense that "free-loaders and lurkers" are frowned upon.
I assure you, that is not the case at the GGG…and to a greater hope, I would like to think that it is not the attitude of many people on BPL.
I have been one of the biggest lurkers and free loaders for sure!
One of the great things that I have seen over the past 2 yrs at the GGG is a woman named Jane….she came out with traditional gear and had just recently gotten into or back into backpacking. (Jane is an older woman and my hero as I hope that I will be on the trail backpacking when I am her age).
Anyway, she came out, asked a bunch fo question and simply checked out the gear and talked to people.
Each year that she has come out, her setup has gotten lighter and lighter…and she is a joy talk to.
Point of it is this….none of us is born a lightweight, sub 10 lb backpacker.
We ALL have to start somewhere and I think that the GGG is simply about people who love the outdoors/backpacking and what to meet other people who HAPPEN to be Lightweight/UL backpackers.
Maybe, in the near future, you will be someone who will be on the forums or at a future GGG and "giving back" to the community by passing along your Lightweight backpacking advice to someone who is new to the craziness that is Ultralight backpackng.
So PLEASE don't feel intimidated by your perceived lack of UL knowledge or even backpacking experience.
This is just about having some FUN, meeting some good people, and checking out the UL gear that people have….which might give you some creative thoughts for where your UL evolution/journey is going to take you.
Looking forward to meeting you.
Edit: P.S. If the weather is good, I am going to bring my child to the GGG for show and tell. :)
Tony