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  • #2041029
    Miguel Arboleda
    BPL Member

    @butuki

    Locale: Kanto Plain, Japan

    No one "created" the community here. Ryan facilitated the platform to allow it a place to come into being, but the members themselves created the community, of their own free will, participation, and contributions. Ryan did not create >any< of those contributions except his own, and the community would not exist without the active participation of the members. If the members decided they no longer wanted to be part of this, the whole forum could come crashing down in a day. Even Facebook could come crashing down in an instant if members decided they no longer wanted to be part of it. I think that is something extremely important to remember when proposing exerting subjective rules on a community, especially one as old as this one.

    Addressing the contents of the draft aside for the moment, what I get from all this is that the reason the draft was proposed for the forums in the first place is because of a dissatisfaction with the forums and thereby the community. Otherwise why bother to bring it up at all?

    Though there is also some irony to the criticisms of openness here, when people are openly discussing the topic right within this thread.

    So my question is: is there an unhappiness with the forums on the part of the administration? Do they want an open and diverse community, or do they want to control it and make it conform to their wishes?

    A community has a mind of its own, and evolves into what it is by the contributions of its members. Take away the free-wheeling freedom to associate and speak that has characterized this community from the start, and it becomes merely an audience.

    I have a lot of criticisms and personal takes on all this, but addressing so many of them has been left unattended for such a long time, that the needs have become too big and too numerous to tackle anymore without causing great upheaval. The problems should have been addressed long ago, when they occurred. I'll just leave this post as it is.

    #2041034
    Richard Cullip
    BPL Member

    @richardcullip

    Locale: San Diego County

    +1 on what Nick says.

    The rule(s) could be as simple as 1) Be nice.

    I don't see the need for much more than that.

    #2041039
    Miguel Arboleda
    BPL Member

    @butuki

    Locale: Kanto Plain, Japan

    +1 to Nick's words.

    And definitely agree on the 3 G's. It could save us a lot of grief here.

    #2041046
    Luke Schmidt
    BPL Member

    @cameron

    Locale: Alaska

    +1 on "Be Nice."

    I'd say we discuss the "Three G's" fairly well considering how controversial they are. I can always skip those discussions if I want. Its hard not to occasionally discuss guns and government when things like the government shutdown affect hiking and when guns are a part of some hikes (hunting or in bear country).

    Regarding rules in general (and other discussions of BPL management) here are my thoughts.

    Ryan Jordan and whoever he works with on BPL staff did the work and spent the funds to set up this website. IMHO it is "their" space and they can set the rules as they want. My subscription gives me access to the site but it does not put me on the board of directors and it does not give me the same ownership of the site as those who created and run it.

    I'm not always happy with how things are done on BPL but ultimately it is Ryan's business. He can ruin it or make it great depending on the choices he makes. We are free to stay or leave and start a facebook group or our own website if we don't like it here.

    #2041047
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I'm very for self moderation, being nice, etc, but at the same time i don't agree with heavier handed censorship and control, or blanket policies based more on the letter of the Law than the Spirit.

    When you try to forcefully repress the shadow side of life, whether within self, others, a group, or what not, often it causes more problems in the long run. That negativity tends to go deeper and more unconscious, becomes more pathological and compulsive. Sure, on the surface things may "appear" nicer superficially, but the behind the scenes back biting, plotting, and vitriol goes deeper, underground and becomes more insidious and harder to directly transform.

    It's sort of like prohibition. Worked real well. The underground, criminal mafia is a sort of symbol of what happens when the shadow side gets repressed too much. It goes underground, it gets more subtle, indirect and conniving and severe. Some of the worst forums (as far as interpersonal interactions) i've ever been on, are the New Age or Spiritual type ones wherein a lot of people have an attachment to maintaining or projecting a spiritual image, and you're supposed to be nice, loving, etc but lord help you if you go against the group think, you question, disagree with the moderators, etc. Such nice, spiritual groups can get real nasty, real quick, and groups or cliques gang up on individuals, but often in less obvious ways and more behind the scene ways. Again, it's due to too much repression of the shadow side. That side of life needs to be in the OPEN so it can get worked on in the light so to speak. Open conflict is not always a bad thing, sometimes it's needed for growth.

    It's more a question of redirecting. One way for healthy redirection is for the more ethical, constructive, high minded type forum members to pay little attention to someone when they are acting in a non constructive way or to call them out on it. You don't have to completely ostracize them all the time (or overly focus on them as sometimes they are looking for that negative attention consciously or unconsciously), unless they consistently show themselves by actions to have no interest or inclination to work on themselves, or any concern for the larger good of the community.

    And frankly, the huge majority of us, occasionally at some point have our off moments wherein we lose patience or centeredness and become more non constructive than is necessary or helpful to others, self or the community as a whole. We all make mistakes and mess up, and it's helpful to try to understand where someone is coming from and why they feel the way they do, before completely dismissing them.

    #2041050
    Roger Caffin
    BPL Member

    @rcaffin

    Locale: Wollemi & Kosciusko NPs, Europe

    > Some of the worst forums (as far as interpersonal interactions) i've ever been on,
    > are the New Age or Spiritual type ones wherein a lot of people have an attachment
    > to maintaining or projecting a spiritual image,

    Does a worship of SUL (or tarps, or alkies, or ..) count?

    Cheers
    (Hey, I'm allowed to stir like anyone else!)

    #2041054
    Infra Greg
    BPL Member

    @infragreg

    "(Hey, I'm allowed to stir like anyone else!)"

    If you're going to stand on top of a snow covered mountain topless, I think you're allowed to stir as much as you like *he,he,he* :-)

    #2041092
    BER —
    BPL Member

    @ber

    Locale: Wisconsin

    I don't really have much issue with RJ's proposed code as written.

    I think Nick has boiled down the spirit well in his "Be Nice" comment.

    I agree with Roger's comment on the need for self-moderation (ie: before you push post, not deleting your comment after half the community has seen it).

    And as far as banning, I think it will be a rarity. I can only think of one member who I see as consistently negative and rude to other posters, and perhaps if a moderator brought his behavior to his own attention, maybe it would improve…or not. I do think it is good to have a moderator who can be the neutral party so as not have a shouting match between members. I am not in favor or calling people out in public.

    I generally favor Nick's suggestion of avoiding the 3 G's or at least putting those conversations into chaff or similar off topic forum (ideally one you could opt in/out of seeing). If someone brings them up during a discussion regarding GEAR, I have no issues with them being moderated, but don't move the whole thread. It would be nice if threads stay on topic.

    The positive side to all of this is that the vast majority of what I read on this forum falls within the proposed code. So really, not much should change…

    #2041114
    Stephen Barber
    BPL Member

    @grampa

    Locale: SoCal

    "PUX has a two rules:

    1. Be nice
    2. No discussion of the 3 G's (God, guns, and government)"

    Now there's a good set of rules! Covers everything, and doesn't get complicated!

    #2041145
    Valerie E
    Spectator

    @wildtowner

    Locale: Grand Canyon State

    It seems like, most of the time, MOST of the people on BPL don't go over the line too much (ok, maybe in Chaff they do, but it's a tiny, dark, scary corner of the website that not everyone goes to…).

    I agree that it is Ryan's website, and he should be the ultimate decision-maker about any rules, and I think one of the most important things we can take from Roger's comments on this thread is that he uses his own "good judgment" as moderator. So…even though the proposed rules are incredibly subjective (!), I think that, in practice, much finesse would be used in applying those rules.

    For example:

    The Rule: Don't gossip, defame, lie, make unsubstantiated claims, engage in libel or slander, or question motives.

    Its Application: In recent GearSwap postings, someone tried to sell gift certificates for The Clymb. One member immediately gave a scam warning (questioned the OP's motives, contrary to the rule, above); many, many members gave the scam warner hell — but he turned out to be 100% right! So sometimes, questioning someone's motives can be a good thing, and helpful to the BPL community as a whole. Maybe the person who warned others saved someone from losing $200-$300 through this scam…

    Hopefully, the moderators will give careful thought to the way they apply these "subjective" rules. I think they will.

    #2041150
    BlackHatGuy
    Spectator

    @sleeping

    Locale: The Cascades

    "(ok, maybe in Chaff they do, but it's a tiny, dark, scary corner of the website that not everyone goes to…)"

    Chaff is not a scary place! It's just a bit ……. mischievous.

    "So…even though the proposed rules are incredibly subjective (!), I think that, in practice, much finesse would be used in applying those rules."

    There have always been rules and moderators here. Roger, of course. But Ryan as well. And I believe Dave C. either said, or inferred, that he has/would moderate certain comments. I also think there have been others over the years. Obviously Roger is the 'main' moderator, and while everyone doesn't agree with every move he's made, I think, overall, most folks would agree he's done a bang-up job as moderator, and has used much finesse in his moderation. (Of course, Aussie finesse is a bit different than U.S. finesse, but that's another subject entirely…..).

    I also think that the proposed 'updated' rules could be seen as a sort of 'shot across the bow.' After all, very, very few people saw any issues with the way things were, so one could reasonably assume that Ryan wants more control exerted over the content of the forums – that he wants to begin moving away from the free-for-all atmosphere that's been pretty pervasive here and instead get a bit more Disney.

    Some folks will welcome that, some will not. Que sera, will be, and all that.

    #2041160
    Bob Bankhead
    BPL Member

    @wandering_bob

    Locale: Oregon, USA

    Merle Haggard said it best: "IF YOU DON'T LOVE IT, LEAVE IT"

    When all the whining, crabbing, complaining, or simple suggesting is over, the following facts remain true:

    This is Ryan's website. He pays the bills. He gets to make the rules. PERIOD. If he blows it, it's his own fault and he has to live with that. If he chooses to solicit our opinions, GREAT – load him up! But he has no obligation to do so. This is not a democracy. Americans especially seem to forget that.

    Roger is Ryan's sole designated and empowered moderator and serves at Ryan's pleasure. His rulings are reviewable only by Ryan. If Roger blows it, he has to deal with RJ's displeasure and whatever negative PMs he receives from the members.

    vengence

    #2041232
    Steve G
    Member

    @sgrobben

    Locale: Ohio

    Ryan may pay the bills but this site lives or dies by the forums.

    The community of contributors has a stake in this whether it is recognized or not. BPL is asking for feedback, I don't see it as whining, crabbing or complaining.

    There is a huge amount of improvement that could be made here. I hope after Ryan pays off his yacht with all that sweet Google ad moolah he has enough left over to pay for a competent web developer.

    #2041245
    Ron D
    BPL Member

    @dillonr

    Locale: Colorado

    The forums are a huge part of the website and they will do just fine and maybe better with some basic conduct rules. The real problem has never been the complaints , the issue has been the deeply personal insults.

    #2041266
    BlackHatGuy
    Spectator

    @sleeping

    Locale: The Cascades

    "Merle Haggard said it best: "IF YOU DON'T LOVE IT, LEAVE IT""

    Meh. Some folks prefer: If you love it, try and help it be the best it can be, which is a bit different than Haggard.

    "This is Ryan's website. He pays the bills. He gets to make the rules."

    I guess I see this a bit differently as well. I agree with the first and last part, but the middle part, not so much. Really, we pay the bills – our fees and our ad clicking. Ryan just decides what bills get paid, and what causes bills to incur (i.e., website development, etc.).

    "Roger is Ryan's sole designated and empowered moderator and serves at Ryan's pleasure."

    I don't think this is true, at least, as I said in the above post, Dave C. once threatened to delete some posts during a thread that was getting nasty, so I assume he also has moderator powers.

    "If he chooses to solicit our opinions"

    He did, that's what this thread, and the survey, are about.

    #2041275
    Tim Zen
    Spectator

    @asdzxc57

    Locale: MI

    +1 on the -1.

    You can solve the problem by not being baited by "red meat" posts.

    #2041301
    Clayton Black
    BPL Member

    @jivaro

    It's called 'synergy'.

    "Synergy is the interaction of multiple elements in a system to produce an effect different from or greater than the sum of their individual effects. The term synergy comes from the Greek word synergia συνέργια from synergos, συνεργός, meaning "working together".

    That's what created the forums here.

    Ad nauseum attacks on the admin does not lend to the positive synergy. Make your complaint and move on to the next topic. Preferably something enlightening that peeps like me love about this site.

    Repetition of the same problems that bother you on every thread where you can make some kind of connection gets old and becomes trolling after a while. Maybe the worst part of this is that new people that can bring new stories and new information are often greeted with snide remarks about the bad admin of BPL. WTF? That isn't necessary and does not help the forums you profess to love.

    This site is full of great and even world class adventurers including the owner……and we are worried about his site management abilities? Frankly they are good enough for me. BPL changed my life and that includes the trolls here (before they were trolls).

    Let it go. Nobody has been kicked off yet but unabashed poo slinging at the admin should be a reason to be kicked off.

    And yes I'm worried about posting this and being trolled but since I don't post much I suppose it's worth the risk. But it is a shame that I have to worry about that. It shouldn't be like that.

    #2041309
    Greg Mihalik
    Spectator

    @greg23

    Locale: Colorado

    "…but since I don't post much…"

    More Than 1 post – check
    Grammatically correct – check
    Spelling – check
    Spelled own name correctly – check

    Clayton, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

    #2041311
    BlackHatGuy
    Spectator

    @sleeping

    Locale: The Cascades

    Nice post. And perhaps the first time Greek's been used here.

    That's what I love about BPL – the range of folks that inhabit these digital halls is really something.

    #2041356
    Richard Scruggs
    BPL Member

    @jrscruggs

    Locale: Oregon

    Triple +1, Clayton. Thanks for saying it so well.

    #2041361
    Infra Greg
    BPL Member

    @infragreg

    Clayton, that was excellently put.

    Only thing I can add to some posters who have said that as feedback has been asked for, therefore it's not complaining, etc. I guess the important thing here is how feedback is expressed. Words as we all know have power, impact and meaning. And communicating with good motives makes all the difference.

    I don't really post, as I'm usually too busy reading the articles or trying to read people's opinions on gear, etc. However, at least in this thread, it's heartening to see that the overwhelming posts have been positively constructed, and even the posters that have an issue with something or other, have generally, reasonably politely put their views forward.

    #2041427
    Richard Scruggs
    BPL Member

    @jrscruggs

    Locale: Oregon

    Re Steve G saying: "Ryan may pay the bills but this site lives or dies by the forums."

    This site was great even before it had any forums. Forums did not "make" this site.

    Not that forums have "ruined" the site (at least not beyond introducing an element of personal insult and unproductive crabbiness at times), but this site certainly does not "live or die" by the forums.

    Indeed, if it were nothing but forums, I wouldn't find it worth the time visiting near as much as I do to enjoy and learn from its non-forum features.

    It was the site — without any forums — that hooked me way back in the beginning.

    #2041814
    Oliver Nissen
    BPL Member

    @olivernissen

    Locale: Yorkshire Dales

    I'm glad this discussion has turned more positive, but it's clear from the earlier train of this thread that the code of conduct isn't really BPL critics' major gripe. Dare I say it's a bit of a distraction?

    But that being said, here's my two cents worth:

    Don't blacklist unsubstantiated information and gossip – these rarely equate to lies and are rarely malicious. In fact, they're so natural to human communication I'd suggest trying to enforce their ban would be futile if not counter-productive. Unsubstantiated information and gossip are valuable as they're often the best stimuli to making the effort to try to find out the truth for oneself.

    #2041938
    Edward Z
    BPL Member

    @fuzz

    Locale: Sunny San Diego

    Bravo Clayton! Nicely put!

    #2041990
    bjc
    BPL Member

    @bj-clark-2-2

    Locale: Colorado

    Amen Clayton!

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