yep, ive had some issues with shipping costs… living in New Zealand doesnt help though. i got a price for an item to be sent over from the US, and was told the cost for shipping was US$40, which just about put me off purchasing. i asked if there was a cheaper option and the answer was no. i bought the item anyway, and when it arrived, the actual cost was only US$22. i sent an e.mail regarding this but havnt had a reply
another time, i made an order for some sale items from a UK store, this time shipping was going to be 40 pounds, once again no cheaper options aparrently. but their shipping within the UK was free, so i had it sent to my Aunty T, for her to then forward on to me in NZ. the parcel was only re addressed, not repackaged into something smaller or anything like that… actual cost.. 10 pounds
so… sometimes there are ways around it, for me anyway