Ok here's the deal. I'm trying to downsize my wife's load for two season, 3-5 day trips. The idea is to get her pack as small and light as possible so we can extend our mileage a bit. I'm carrying all of the two person gear (shelter, kitchen, first-aid, etc.) and most of the food. She's going to carry her sleeping bag (8 liter stuff sack), her pad (POE Max compact), clothes (4 liter stuff sack), rain jacket, toiletries, misc utility items (headlamp, etc.), a 2 liter hydration bladder, and possibly a day's food. I'm thinking her total pack weight will be in the 10-12 lb. range.
The pack must be able to accomodate a hydration bladder. At this weight and bulk, a daypack isn't out of the question but I'd like the pack to have a feature set (mesh pockets, supportive/stable, etc.) worthy of multi-day travel. Right now she's using a 3000 c.i. pack that weighs 3lbs, which is overkill.
Caveat: I'm really having a hard time making the spinnaker or all-silnylon plunge as she has a tendancy to fall down often (sorry honey!) and can be rough on gear. My initial thought was for the ULA Relay because I love my Conduit but I'm looking for other suggestions. Any input from female hikers would be especially appreciated! Thanks.

