"So you're saying I can work my aRse off, skip the donuts and pizza, and wake up at 5 AM every Saturday to run to the top of a few peaks to stay in shape…
…Only to go out on a trip with a person that is more concerned with the Pizza Hut Take-Out Deal of the Week and their FFA ranking on Modern Warfare 3…
…and I have to carry extra weight so we can be "equal" on our trip?"
I struggle with this one, too, Craig. I guess where I've ended up is: 1) Select your partners carefully to weed out the unfit, incompatible, etc; 2) Once the trip begins, if someone gets slightly injured, contracts a minor sickness, or is just plain having a bad day here and there, I shift to "To each according to their need, from each according to their ability" mode in the interest of ensuring that the trip goes as well as possible. The inevitable post trip debriefing/rehash may, however, lead to some not being invited on future trips, in the interest of not making a habit of this approach. I've had trips work out this way from time to time, and there are no easy answers. I will say that as I've gotten older and have a very intense feeling of not having precious time to waste on turkeys, I have edged closer to being a John Birch kind of guy out of sheer selfishness.