I'm at a cross roads with my hiking buddies and now officially can claim UL status for trips down to freezing. (Thanks for all the help and hints on BPL !!)
Issue is that they are still traditional and lug huge 75 ltr packs fully loaded with around 20kgs each.
I must have tried 10 times to get them to cull weight but it's a loosing battle. They have improved a little but that's so minimal it's not funny. I'm still unable to get them not to bring there "real world" fully loaded leather wallet let alone not lug 5kgs of spare clothing, 1kg rain jacket etc.
They even take spare titanium mugs and cutlery…… cause there main titanium mug might leak etc……. whatever ??
This has always been okay with me as I'd just trudge along with them and happily not complain at the end of the day when they would winge about sore feet/legs/shoulders (We all know the pains one gets with big packs)
Recently I have completed a few multi day solo walks and was amazed at the km's I can rack up when alone and not doing the long breaks every hour, boots off/on at every puddle, waiting for the sun to dry the tent fully in the morning etc.
I'm just home from a mountain trip with my mate and the gap between our two styles was huge. The first time I thought I'd walk up a hill and wait at the top for him to catch up scared the ….. out of me.
Took me 20 minutes and I waited a full hour, yes a whole 60 further minutes more before fearing he had injured himself so I ran a 1/4 of it back down to find him "resting" on the side of the track !!
I was not impressed. I can handle the fact that I maybe a little fitter and carrying less weight but to see me walk a hill in a 1/4 of the time it took him was shocking.
Is there any way I can salvage something from this and continue to enjoy my "traditional" walkers companionship on our treks ??
We have been planning to do a 15-20 day walk mid year and now I fear this may become a "me" and "them" thing and I'd be better solo or with another like minded walker.

