I'm not spouting quals to be a jerk, but hopefully to get good information to people and provide some clarity. I studied chemical engineering, my work as an environmental engineer involves toxicolgy, LD50s, etc; but more relevently, I studied and taught wilderness advanced first aid courses rather intensively in a past life. And my wife is an MD, we've had this conversation before and, like any medical personnel I've run this by, we're all in agreement:
If a person or an animal has been poisoned with methanol or ethylene glycol (the non-animal-safe automotive anti-freeze – your basic bright green, sweet-tasting Prestone coolant.):
Get your patient slightly drunk. You know how many shots / wine / beer get you drunk. 3-ish drinks for an adult. Scale it by weight for a child or pet. Get them transported to medical care, but you what they'll do there? The same thing! They will use ethanol for the same reason.
If you are minutes from the hospital, DON'T give alcohol by mouth because they can give it IV and therefore they can use less and get it in their liver quicker. But if you are hours away, get them a little drunk, keep them a little drunk, monitor their safety and their airway and get them to the hospital.
How it works: It's not that the other alcohol is especially toxic in and of itself, but when metabolized in the liver, formic acid is a metabolite of methanol and is very slow to clear from the body, creating acid-base inbalances. Ethylene glycol is oxidized to glycolic acid which is, in turn, oxidized to oxalic acid, which is toxic. Ethanol acts by competing with ethylene glycol / methanol for alcohol dehydrogenase, the first enzyme in the degradation pathway. Because ethanol has a much higher affinity for alcohol dehydrogenase, it successfully blocks the breakdown of ethylene glycol into glycoaldehyde which prevents the further degradation to oxalic acid.
I started to post some medical websites, but wikipedia has good articles on both methanol and ethylene gylcol that cover all these points and is much more readable.
As to dangerous amounts: 10 ml pure methanol can cause blindess, 30 ml can kill, but 100 ml usually is required to kill. As little as 30 ml ethylene glycol has killed an adult, but 200 ml of 50/50 solution is more typically deadly. Especially for ethylene glycol, the bigger risk is to children and pets due its sweet taste and their smaller size.
We now return you to your regularly scheduled debate about alcohol stove fuels. . .