I have both the Sidewinder and the ULC. I have the Sidewinder with an 1.3L Evernew pot that I use with my wife, and then I have the ULC cone for my 0.9L Evernew pot (ECA265) that I use solo. Of the two, I prefer the ULC for it's superior pack-ability and quicker setup.
The key differences are:
1) Sidewinder cones are heavier than ULC cones for the same volume (not dimensions) of pot, because Sidewinders work with wider pots, so obviously the cone is wider too. On the up side, wider pots are going to be even more stable (lower center of gravity for same volume of water) and I think they're slightly more efficient at capturing the stoves heat.
2) The Sidewinder cone is best packed in a tyvek sleeve (included) so setup/takedown is a few seconds slower.
3) ULC cones consume little space inside your pot, so there's room for other stuff like the a mug. This is especially important if you want to use a fragile mug (ie. a styrofoam one) and you need it protected. You won't fit a mug in your pot along with a Sidewinder cone. You'll get the 12-10 stove in there and then maybe a few tiny items.