Isaac,
You do not provide specs for the SMD carbon pole, only that it is 2 oz lighter than the alloy. As with many things, the strength depends on the quality and thickness of the material. Since the SMD pole is being used for a rigid application, it should be thicker than the Easton dome tent poles due to a larger diameter and greater thickness from more layers of carbon wrap. But you would have to talk to SMD to get specs. Ideally, you would want to know the I.D., the O.D. and the # of layers of wrap, but even with that, quality remains a factor.
I would not use flexible dome type carbon poles for a 'mid tent, as there is no need for bending them as is done for a dome shape, and I would not want something that is going to bow in high winds for a 'mid tent.
I searched for a couple years, and found that one of the the Victory V6 arrow shafts in a .3" ("300") spine layup is stiffer, but has about the same strength in break tests as the Easton aluminum .344" shaft and the Easton Carbon FX. None of the other carbon kite, tentpole or arrow shafts, including the Victory V6 400, which is lighter, more flexible and thinner walled than the 300, tested as well in break tests, albeit some were much more expensive and touted for their strength by the manufacturers. Note that the Easton alloy shafts are very higly tempered, and although more flexible than carbon, can also shatter, rather than bend. The Easton .344" shaft is used on the TT Moment. It weighs just under 14 gpi (grains per inch – 437.5 grains=1 oz), compared to just under 10 gpi for the V6. The Easton Carbon FX weighs around 12 gpi. So I agree with Roger, that the right carbon arrow shafts, with enough layers of multi-directional wrap, can be suitable for tent poles, lighter, and just as strong as alloy, but will not be as flexible; hence, the greater need for elbows such as those used on Roger's tent.
The jury is still out on the more flexible carbon poles being used on the new EMP tent. From the posts and pix on the BPL thread, it does appear to use an elbow on the more tightly flexed hoop-shaped pole.
Although you are looking for a larger diameter and more rigid pole for a 'mid, these comments about more flexible carbon shafts for use on dome tents should matter to you in the sense that carbon can be both lighter and stronger than alloy in an equivalent application. There was a post during the last year from a DIYer who found a very cheap but good rigid carbon shaft on a used golf club.
So, IMO you really have to depend on the reputation of SMD to provide a suitably strong, light and rigid carbon pole for its 'mid tents, even though it may not be as rigid as the expensive carbon avalanche probes. If you get the pole, and it is more flexible than a carbon trekking pole, I would send it back and get the alloy pole or look elsewhere. If you keep it, please let us know how it holds up in high winds. My guess is that keeping the stakes planted will be a bigger issue.