Strange, how you email one person for advice, who then puts your mail on the net in Dutch and how fast the word then spread worldwide. Anyway, now that the word is out
… lets make the best of it.
I like to thank those with balanced and constructive advice or concerns posted. I expected emotional reactions as well, but I do not wish to react on all of them. I just like to say that I think we are taking very good care of our girl, reading a lot, talking a lot and asking advise from medical professionals…and experienced people like most of you. I do not consider us selfish. Dropping her for 8 hours a day in a "quote-childcare-unquote business" to pursue selfish interests, as Roger Coffin explained, is something to think about. Choosing to take both an extra 1 month unpaid leave to be with our baby 100% is not really selfish I think. And for those of you who think we do not care what the baby thinks: after three weeks we noticed that the very best way to calm her is to carry her in a big sling, like 3 billion other mothers everywhere outside the West know for long. They do it every day. We will not bow 1000 times a day in a rice field with her but after two years in Asia I noticed babies do quite well close to mom the whole day. I discovered that on daddies chest she always relaxes as well and every daywalk we did with her so far was a pleasure for all three of us. Test weekends with tent are planned in May. By the way, ever thought about why there are so many allergies these days? Fresh mountain air will do her good if you see the pollution levels in the region where I live. We are flexible people who are determined to just give it a try and see where we get, as we always do. It has brought us epic Himalayan treks far from the beaten track that also raised eyebrows when we talked on them beforehand. If it turns out to be a week of trekking and a week of camping and again a week of trekking, so be it.
Those who consider the heavy pack should know that backpacklight offers alternatives. The 8 kilo each INCLUDES tent, stove, some food AND babystuff like 24 washable diapers and sunhat and babyoil and other small things that she needs. (1 kg backpack from Osprey, 1,5 kg tent from Vaude, 600gr sleeping bag from mountain hardware, …. and for ourselves: no luxuries) By post we can send small packs to pick up every two weeks with 2 kg of renewable items such as toilet paper, a few baby items and a few high energy snacks hard to find in the small shops. The route seems to be never more away from the world of shops and Doctors then a few hours walking (confirmed by Roger Coffin) and if the GR10 does make a longer distance away from everything, we can always take another route as well. Plenty of options in that area and plenty of medical facilities as well.
I especially appreciated the comments from people with experience (often on the GR10 and/or with trekking with babies), such as Roger Coffin who gave excellent replies to some paranoia claims about bugs (I bet we have more of them here at home) or sleeping (she sleeps more if we walk her the whole day), Doug Johnson who is also an inspiration and the cute description from Bob Bankhead of how the baby will experience all this plus the warm posting from his doughter Mary. Thanks also to Nick Gatel who does not advice us to do it but had some wise words for some of you: “I wouldn't encourage it. But let them make the decision themselves. If they need technical help/information, then advise them if you can.” Thanks to all of you, will keep you posted ok?
Thanks to these them we will also bring a few non renewable diapers for back up and post a few of them to the two-weekly pick up sites. The renewables we will wash every evening and hang them to the two backpacks (she uses about 8 a day and we take 24 of them) We will move back to using sticks (we got rid of them a while ago but for safety of baby we will take them back) and keep the ears dry and clean. Gloves and a hat will also go in the luggage, they complement the mini umbrella for her. Polio is the only vaccination we have to do (many medical professional advice against all others and me myself I also had only polio as a kid and I'm still in good health). We look for a way to take polio on a medically sound way. Concerning the possible attack from one of the 3 bears in the whole range: Ton Joosten who spend 1300 days in the range never saw one and hey, we will not smear honey on our girl and go on a grizzly hugging tour. It is true, nights are short now, if she wakes us only two times we are so happy (happened only once). But the most tiring is getting visits at the times our girls does not want visit, being in the office whole day and having shift number two in the evening and shift three in the night. According to the books, nights usually get better after 3 months so lets hope they do. So far brestfeeding goes well. If that changes, nights become hell or snow breaks out at that low altitude then we take shelter in refuges and if it stays like that we quit. But we have to say to those who advice against starting: no point in trying. Traintickets are in the pocket and starting is the one thing I can guarantee that we will do. Finishing I never promised anyone, not even myself. And for those who are afraid this is a casper and hobbes cartoon with the dad being the camping freak who neglects the signs from mum and casper…..mom also loves trekking, we are both mountain guides and we both had the same idea
Remaining technical advice needed (might think of more later)
+a lightweight inflatable babybed: we have seen some but have no experience. Anybody?
+other specific knowledge from people who did trekking with a baby on health, part from the obvious like taking a thermometer, gloves, hat, vitamins, a cellphone and some specific creams and medicine for babies…
All the best
anonymous (just in case James Kester likes to sue us in advance ;-)
