First of all, don’t try to be ultralight in those conditions. The stakes are just too high. You may need a bigger pack. You’ll need a lot of down. That will take up a lot of space.
Also, you’l be spending a lot of money to get this gear. Sorry.
My kit can go down to around 0 F. I have a Rab neutrino endurance parka, and I like it a lot. I bought down pants from Goosefeet gear. I wouldn’t go without down pants; I started getting hypothermic without them when it was in the 20s with wind. I have a 5F rated Western Mountaineering bag. I wouldn’t take that down to -20F. I would never take a quilt into those conditions.
For one stop shopping, I would visit Feathered Friend’s website. They make gear for extreme conditions. It’s great quality, but you pay for it.