I used to work in retail–bookseller. At one point we had a one week return policy on CD’s (remember them?). There was a dedicated group of ‘buyers’ who would abuse that policy to the max–take cds home, open them, burn them, return them’
Berkeley REI has always had a ton of returns. There’s a difference between a company offering a one year warranty and REIs no questions asked return policy. I’m entirely sympathetic with REI here. People will abuse the policy and. REI gets. stuck with the loss.
Do due diligence, try out the gear or clothes–that’s the advantage of box stores, right?–and make up your damn mind in a week. If there’s unreasonable gear failure early on, bring it back. Otherwise, live with your choice. Take responsibility. Understand how things work.
p.s. there’s an ecological aspect to this too–returned items aren’t always just passed on. They get trashed. Some folks order three different brands of any given item fully intending to return two of them. The shipping costs, the restocking and re warehousing costs, etc, and the environmental costs of this are potentially enormous. Manufacturers over manufacture when they realize a fifth of sales will be returned. It’s often simply cheaper to send out new items rather than process returned items.