Geoff,
Thank you much for starting this thread. The many comments suggest a variety of outcomes, but have been extremely helpful. As a result, am still wedded to polyester (vs nylon), and am still wedded to sewing (vs bonding). However, without going into the long history of the issues raised on BPL with nylons, there have been too many experiences with tent failure due to moisture and deterioration. Tents can look good in balmy weather, but only for so long.
So am ready to try polyesters, particularly those that have held up much longer, and have shown the elasticity essential for high performance in severe wind, heat and rain storms. Of course, polyesters can vary greatly, but there are now enough examples of excellent performance with some.
Have also read about differing performance with silicone seam sealers;Â but if those are limited to the threads, and avoid damage to the elasticity of the seams, they are probably the best option;Â and so will have the greatest likelihood of maintaining the elasticity which is critical to a shelter, and not found in expensive laminates and bonding tapes.
Having said all that, it leaves just the design, construction and skills, and those should be a snap. As Roger once said to me, “Build the Tent!” Later he kindly acknowledged that it was just a hobby. But it is a hobby on which survival may depend; and if well done, can be greatly rewarding in the great outdoors.  Happy Trails.