So, I’m trying to determine how to maximize my enjoyment of backpacking and there are a few variables in my life that make it hard to determine what skills and thoughts to work on or leave alone. Many of you have probably thought through this a good bit already and I’d love to hear some of your conclusions.
I live in the southeast and have traditionally done solo trips in places with as much solitude as I can find. Generally, I see very few people on my trips and I do like it that way. Love people – just introverted. I’m in Radford Virginia so I do most of my hiking in Mt Rogers national recreation area. I’m starting to explore the Monongahela National Forest in WV too.
Because my career has changed in the last few years I now have more opportunities to do longer trips and go places that are arguably more beautiful in certain ways. “Out West”, is what I mean here. Last year I took my first trip out west and did 4 days in the Gila Wilderness (I was also visiting my brother in Silver City or I’d have spent more time in the Wilderness). It was fantastically different than what I’m used to here and the wide open and quiet views on top of the mountains seemed to scratch an itch that doesn’t get scratched in the woods of the southeast. I love both the wide open views out west and the dense forests here and I want to see more of both. Hey, I’d love to see the surface of the moon; the more exploration and variety the better right?
However, coordinating and paying for a trip like the one I did to the Gila seems like it may have been more effort than it was worth to me. The travel to and from was quite costly and draining in a way that hopping in my vehicle and driving to a trailhead never is. The planning itself was quite daunting for me too. For example: I’ve never used a shuttle before and although I found a couple of services I wasn’t really sure I could trust them with getting me out and back and to the airport in a timely way. Most of these services seem to be just a dude with a car and not much a reputation to keep up – maybe I’m wrong on that. I ended up just renting a vehicle because it seemed the most realistic way to get home on time…but expensive.
I’m an INTJ and love to analyze and systematize things but when it comes to vacation and time off my shadow side comes out. I hardly want to plan at all. Just wandering around in the woods and figuring out how the trails all fit together by repeatedly hiking the same forests is my go to.
If I’m being honest I’d like to just do the wandering around thing that I just described but in different areas out west. But that doesn’t seem safe or realistic in terms of $ or the stress of planning.
Also, I have found that I don’t actually enjoy being out solo more than about 3 nights. I feel like at that point I’ve caught up on all the thinking I want to do and am ready to get back to life. It would be different if I didn’t have 3 little kids and a wife – I could see enjoying longer trips then – but I do and I start missing them and perceiving they need me back.
Anyway, my thinking at this point is just to make peace with the shorter more local trips and enjoy what I have in front of me. My son is 9 and he has started to go with me some which I’m loving. Maybe if he keeps enjoying it we’d take some longer hikes together out west? Longer trips seem possibly more enjoyable with a partner? Another potential positive about east coast hiking I’m thinking about is getting a hammock system – I’ve slept in one before and I find it blissfully comfortable.
Just curious what others who love backpacking may think about these conclusions I’m forming or does it sound like I’m missing something and I’ll regret not pushing harder to head back out west?
One of the main things I’m still wondering is did I just overcomplicate the planning last year? Also, is the second big trip that involves flying way easier to pull off and I should try one more before concluding it’s not worth the effort and stress?
Thanks in advance : )

