I have a Tarptent Cloudburst with two aluminum hoop poles and a Sierra Designs Tensegrity 2 with a single aluminum hoop pole. More often than not the pole ends are very difficult to put in the grommet or take out of the grommet. I think the pole is near the breaking point when either putting it in tension or trying to take it out of tension. (I hope that makes sense.)
Do you have any tips or tricks to avoid breaking a pole? Or any tips for making the process easier, safer, and less stressful on me?

