I believe we will see a lot of experiences like yours, Brad. Not so much with the tent, but with the ground pads. The new, and highly touted, UberLight is a real problem.
The EN/ISO standard they used for testing the bags calls for a pad with an R value of 5. This is a bit of a cheat in my estimation, but it IS the standard. Hell, at 60F, in a tent, I would likely be comfortable sleeping on the pad alone with no bag. Anyway, a good warm pad system is required. An R5 is a bit high for three season camping in most of the US, but not really out of line in the ADK’s. Temps at night are usually in the 50s only one month out of the year.
Let me relate a story that emphasizes this. My daughter and I were out camping (a fast pack trip) carrying minimal gear. I didn’t know it till we were at camp, but she had decided not to bring her ZLite because it weighed too much. (She was down to 5 pounds, I was carrying ~7.) We brought a small 1+ tent and I brought my torso pad. The temps in late July dropped to around 38F that night. She had her 32F bag (I had my 40F bag) and she was up every half hour doing situps to stay warm after 2300! I was cool, but slept (except when she finally disturbed me.) I spread my pad sideways below our shoulders around 0100 so she had some warmth. But she never noticed the heat loss from the ground. She was just cold, overall. (We have been out in 25F degree weather before and she was very surprised to be cold that night, even with her jacket and rain gear on.) It takes quite a bit of cold before you notice heat loss from the ground as penetrating “cold”.
I believe you experienced much the same. Your pad was only an R2, maybe slightly higher due to the thinlight (maybe an R0.5.) If it was at all squishy, it might have been as low as 1.0-1.5. There is NO insulation or radiant barriers in an Uber. It is simply a couple inches of airspace resulting in a LOT of convection loss and radiant loss.
As a side sleeper, you likely exacerbated the problem with the Uber. I would bet that the sides of the pad were exposed. This will cause a large component of convectional heat loss, especially since there is no insulation/radiant baffling.
A person normally sleeps comfortably at around 75-85F degrees. Even at 50F, this is enough to drive heat out of your body, into the pad, and out through the edges. This “edge bleeding” is a rather well known phenomena with the NeoAirs and is likely exacerbated in the Uber.. In one case, after a rather cold night, I resorted to putting a medium NeoAir inside my Montbell SS to stay warm the next…warmer than simply laying on it. With any type of wider quilt, this isn’t much of a problem, because the pad attachments usually pull the quilt over the pad edges. The newer mummy design of the XLite also eliminates a lot of the exposed edges.
Anyway, I think we will be hearing more of cold nights with properly rated bags using the Uber. In the northern states and higher elevations, I doubt they will be adequate. They certainly do not measure up to the EN/ISO standard. That said, we have been using light pads for many years. Before GVP gear I used a 3/8″ foam pad (I will guess an R1.0-1.5.) After they switched to GossamerGear, I used a NightLite for several years (R2.0-2.5.) With the introduction of the NeoAir, I simply added the 13oz, and still carry the NightLite (Around an R5.3, total.)
Everybody sleeps differently. A small tent can usually supply 7F-15F increased warmth. Tarps, something less. I need a 20F quilt to handle 30F comfortably. I know that. You might need something similar.