Ok guys, I'm a newbie to light/ultralight backpacking. Just looking for a few cues to get started. I'll probably look to buy most of my gear secondhand to save cash as I'm going to need pretty much everything. I'm 36, and have been out of backpacking for the past 20 years. I packed quite a bit as a kid/teenager and would like to start getting back out there. As for what gear, I currently have: a couple of down sleeping bags (north face), an 8 pound Quest Preying mantis tent, and an old external frame pack. I would like to spend this winter gearing up as far as a tent, backpack, cooking system, etc. I need to keep this relatively low buck, but UL backpacking appeals to me greatly. I guess I just need to hit a happy medium at this point. I am looking for a total expenditure of $1,000 or less for just me, and the addition of family members as far as a pack. A little about me:
36 years old in good shape, mostly weekend trips, with the occasional 5 or 6 day thrown in. I'm 6'3", 200 pounds. Occasionally packing with my girlfriend who is 5'6", 130 pounds, also in good shape. Also occasionally bringing my 6 year old daughter with me, or my 40# standard poodle (don't ask…long story!
I would be looking at a 3 man 3 season tent with a vestibule for times when we all go, or that I could manage on my own or just with the fly. Tent is non negotiable for my 6 year old at this point. Can you point me in the right direction as far as some potential things to look into?
Oh and most hiking will be done in Texas/Oklahoma/Arkansas with a yearly trip to Colorado/New Mexico/etc.

