I just took my 4 year old on her first backpack and am fired up to do more. I'm new to ultralight backpacking and am planning to gradually upgrade our gear. For our first trip we managed 2 packs under 30lbs each. For both me and my husband this was by far the lightest packs we've ever hiked with. I'd love to get even lighter as I upgrade our gear.
For our first trip I upgraded my old blue thermarest to a NeoAir XLite.
Next up is a new tent. My old tent (Sierra Designs flashlight 3) is about 20 years old and while it is in remarkably good shape, it is a little small and some of the waterproofing has worn off.
I'm having an incredibly hard time figuring out how to make a decision about a new tent. I'm hoping some of you can help me figure it out.
Non-negotiable – tent needs to be sturdy enough that a kid can hang out and play in it. Need a bug net and bathtub floor.
Things I'm thinking about:
freestanding vs. non-freestanding.
My old tent needs stakes. Asking around though, all the backpackers I know like freestanding tents. We live in Northern California, so could potentially end up on granite. But it seems like all the truly light tents need stakes. OTOH, the freestanding tents all need guying out with stakes, so maybe this doesn't matter?
extreme conditions.
Should I just assume I won't be bringing a kid anywhere where a tent would need to survive in strong winds or storms? Sierras are unpredictable and I keep my gear for a long time.
space.
I'd like a tent big enough to hang out in if the bugs are bad or during rain.
My current top runners:
Sierra Designs Flash 3 UL Tent
Pluses – great space inside, awnings, freestanding
Minuses – heaver than my current tent at 5 lbs. 1 oz., I'm concerned about those awnings in wind, can't be reorienting a tent if the kid is asleep and the wind shifts, too heavy to take solo.
Tarptent Cloudburst 3 (or possibly Hogback)
Pluses – great space inside, light, looks like it would perform in wind, storms, light enough I could take it solo
Minuses – not freestanding
MLDSuperMid seems tempting but that pole in the middle is kind of a deal breaker.
I appreciate any thoughts.








