The wrap uses almost 50% more fabric. Never personally used one as I don't like the design, although the advantage is you don't have to step into it with muddy shoes. Wrap it like a Sarong at the beach, takes a good wind to mess it up. I suppose Zpacks skirt with the full length of Velco accomplishes the same thing as well if the idea of a wrap rather than a step in appeals to you.
Do you have a pair of drawcord running shorts? Try it out… plenty of folks backpack in those. Personally, I wear the skirts on my waist (some ladies like them on their hips) so I find the simple shoelace knot I use ends up above the buckle of my hipbelt and out of the way. Webbing tended to roll in the channel, and the ladderlock or other buckle did get in the way. No issues with 1/4" flat cord- a spare shoelace works well too.
Your snipped elastic channel is a bad idea from a durability and ease of construction standpoint. You'd be better off using a 1/8" or 1/4" elastic (like the kind for wrist cuffs) piece in a plain channel. Put it on, pull the elastic tight, tie a simple knot and snip off the extra. The elastic will stretch enough to slip it on, and your hipbelt will take up any extra slop. If the elastic wears out it is easy to snip and replace.
I have a ghetto booty, and roughly a 5" difference from waist to hip measurement. Unless you are J-Lo or Beyoncé, odds are decent I got more junk in the trunk than you and if it works for me, it probably works for you. A-Line style is pretty much what you get, I think. Looks like a lampshade to me.
To lay out I measure waist, and waist to knee. I prefer knee length as well, though some prefer mid calf. Either way- I layout two parallel lines- waist length and fabric width minus 2 inches. I set the distance between them at Waist to Knee minus 3". I connect the sides to form a triangle, then swing arcs from the center point to layout the skirt. Add 1.5" to top, 1" to bottom, and 3/4" to sides for Seam allowances. Sorry- I can't seem to post a pic to show you- but it's a basic caldera cone layout if that helps.
While a cuben mini skirt would be a stunning addition to any wardrobe, I personally would find a nice knee length semi transparent green cuben to be the more alluring piece of apparel. Imagination is a powerful tool.
Someone else will have to help you with the cuben specific questions- though I don't think any of the items you mention are a concern really. (Bias, etc.) As far as I know- for a non-structural application like this- you could easily go with any weight you feel comfy with and the tape should work fine.
Unless you plan to be in the rain all the time, and sitting in the rain all the time- I would think 1.0 would be plenty tough. Although a heavier weight would give you a nice "sit" piece even on dry days. Like the Tyvek scrap many use for that purpose.
I got some swatches from Quest Outfitters, but had to pay a minimal charge and add to an order(to avoid separate shipping). Most fabric folks seem to go this route.
I like Google sketch up- it's free.