I am trying to plan out gear purchases so that I can prepare my family for a future of backpacking. Everyone in the family is on-board which is great, the problem is that we are a rather large group – we have three kids and that makes a total of 5 people.
It seems as though most light-weight tents top-out at 4 people. Beyond that you are looking at stuff that is very heavy, or having to carry more than one shelter which also becomes heavy. Perhaps you guys can help me out, I will outline my desires, followed by my insecurities/inexperience:
– I would love to just use a single shelter for all 5 people, but would consider using 2 if I have to.
– I would like the shelter to be capable of four season use so that we could go out in the winter.
– I would like the shelter to be comfortable for car camping as well.
– The shelter would need to be highly bug resistant.
– It would be really nice to be able to either cook in the shelter or in a vestibule if the weather is nasty. (I guess an alternative would be to bring a small tarp for outdoor cooking as well).
– I would like durability. I don't want something so light that it will only last a couple of years.
Insecurities:
– I have no experience with floorless shelters. I have concerns about getting stuff wet, especially when car camping on a hard dirt site.
– I have no experience in dealing with condensation issues in single wall shelters. I would hate for my kids to get all wet and cold.
So, based on that, I am thinking that one or two hex/pyramid type shelters might be the best (Golite, BD, Oware, etc.). However I am not comfortable with the floorless design, bug, and condensation issues. I know that the Golite and BD have internal bug nets with floors. The problem is that once you add all of that extra weight, you might as well be looking at standard double wall tents. Perhaps I am wrong and you guys can set me straight on that…
Perhaps I am looking for the holy grail. Any experience and advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!



