William, I didn't get quite the same take-aways from Dan's statements you quoted. But that said, he is strongly opinionated, and I can see how it does come across as condescending to a degree. Dan reminds me very much of Jerry Wiguto, owner of Wiggy's. They are both outspoken on public forums, and their attitude (however you choose to describe it) turns off a lot of people, including some potential customers.
In spite of this, I have a lot of respect for straight shooters. And both men make exceptional products, if that is the type of gear a person needs for their specific uses. I think the problem comes when they try to convert others to their way of thinking, when in fact someone else's product would really work better for a specific role. But let's be honest, that is not an uncommon trait, and the majority of manufacturers who are passionate about their work probably fall into the same category…they may just not be as vocal about it.
I've had a McHale pack (which I since sold to a forum member who will get better use of it than I did). For me, personally, a Kifaru pack is even more comfortable, and happens to cost less.
I'm envious of the UL folks who can be comfortable carrying a minuscule pack, shelter, food, and sleep system. I try to head in that direction, but for me it just won't be a perfect fit. There are too many compromises with comfort that I have to make at camp, to be ultralight on the trail. But thanks to this site and the folks on it, I have cut my overall pack weight nearly in half, while still having plenty of leeway for the creature comforts. I'm happy to be in the "light" category and UL works great for others. HYOH and all that. :)