Tjaard,
I think you did a good job of summarizing the pros/cons of conventional winter mids with and without an inner. There is an additional mid option that you didn't mention. I use an Epic fabric SL5 (breathable & 40 oz) plus an integral silnylon sod cloth (20" silnylon & 11.3 oz) for winter use. The Epic fabric eliminates most of the condensation and the sod skirt eliminates most of the forced convection.
In 20+ mph winds I can’t feel any air movement in the shelter but, I took a thermal image of my insulated Keen Growlers (32F) and you can see the heat move slightly sideways (15.5F) in the ambient (1F) conditions immediately after entering the shelter.

15 minutes after entering the shelter

After 1 hour only slight RH increase

The breathable walls and the top vents create a 16 F vertical stratification.

I tested to see what affect my Coleman Extreme, at high setting, had on the temperature.

The Coleman Extreme was great for cooking dinner but almost worthless as a tent heater.

Only 10F heat increase from Coleman Extreme but it melted the frozen ground to increase the humidity.

On another cold/snowy day the temp was 3F.

A radiant heat source (black wood stove or small propane heater) test.

59F at shoulder level with 4,000 BTU radiant heat source

Low humidity

79F at shoulder level with 6,000 BTU radiant heat source

If Roger Caffin made an optional IR head for his stove, the combination would be extreme cold weather tent heater Nirvana. Roger… hint… hint!