I have only been a member for a couple of weeks, and this place is awesome. Thanks for all the advice so far!
I do have another puzzle: I am trying to lighten my load, not insanely so, but for the reasons of having more fun and being less tired on the trail. Here is my current big 4, which I will put notes in parentheses for explanation. I backpack with my wife 100% of the time, so I must have at least a 2 person tent.
Tent: BA Jack Rabbit 2 SL. We have a ground cloth, and all-inclusive it its bag, the tent weighed just over 4lbs (we are thinking to swithc to a Stratospire 2 by Tarptent)
Sleeping Bag:I cannot sleep in a mummy bag, so I got a BA Deer Park 30 degree down bag, and it is extremely roomy and warm, but it weighs a tad over 3 lbs, and doesn't pack down really small. (thinking of EE Revelation X 20 quilt to replace).
Pack: Osprey Volt 60, weighs 3lbs 15 oz. (thinking osprey exos 48. considered the osprey hornet, but am thinking my pack weight will be too high for it to be comfortable. I have an REI gift card, and a small Amazon gift card which I could use to help pay for either of these, but a ULA, GG, etc pack would have to wait a while)
Pad: Thermarest Trail Scout, size small, weighs 1 lb exactly. (I switched to this as we had it laying around, and it is pretty light. I pair it with a piece of my thermarest z-lite that I cut off to use as a kneeling pad)
So my question is, given a tight budget, what would be the first piece of gear you guys would change? I am leaning towards the quilt first, as then I could reduce my weight by roughly 2lbs, free up a lot of space in my pack…then get a new pack next as funds become available, and shave another 2 lbs off. Then finally get the Tarptent.
What are your thoughts? It's fun hearing what others would do, and I really welcome the help.

