No Mark, in many ways, you're just typical from my experience. From the time that i can remember in early grade school till present, when interacting with my peers in a group dynamic, i would somewhat often receive treatment in a similar manner despite being very quiet and keeping to myself (especially when younger).
Being treated thusly use to upset, sadden, and/or anger me. Eventually, i realized that the people who treated me and others they deemed defective, less than, etc in such a manner deep down had a lot of insecurity and self love issues despite the proud, confident airs or the grins or smirks.
I started to have compassion for these folks, because i both intuited/learned it was these folks who really are the ones who suffer more (unless they are truly pathological, but ime such people are rare). What you put out, you receive in some fashion.
As i've said to Franco before, people who are truly happy within, and know the importance of love, rarely ever put down, try to belittle, or make feel bad any person. They might stand up for themselves or for others or disagree impersonally with certain ideas, beliefs, etc, but they don't demean others on a personal level, or they don't make a habit of it.
This is the 2nd personally directed, insulting post from you to me within just a few days.

