With your x long (6'5") as you are laying on your back with your feet comfortably in the foot box, where does the bag come up on your face?
About an inch above my eyes. I sleep on my side and like to be able to pull the quilt over my head though. Joe used to have a note on his site about length. I think a few people were finding the quilts too short and he was recommending sizing up. Not sure if he still recommends that or if he has made the quilts a bit larger. I would contact him. he responds very quickly to emails.
How does the top width compare to your old ee wide? The specs say the zpacks is wider.
It is very, very slightly wider, starts to taper sooner.
If I could get the long in reg width it would only weigh 15 ounces, but I am wondering if I need a wide. Is there room for a puffy?
Plenty of room for a puffy. Personally I would only get a wide if I wanted to be able to zip the bag up and use it as a sleeping bag. Mine doesn't have a zip and I use it in quilt mode.
If you sleep on your back I would also have a look at the Katabatic quilts.