"1/ Lithium batteries have no memory, so they do not care if they are partially discharged and then charged again."
Mark, it seems like you don't understand! Which would you rather have, a battery that gives you 300 cycles of 250 shots each, or a battery that gives you 300 cycles of 50 shots each?
"2/ Any camera that was designed to use lithium batteries will have a low voltage cut-off built into it, this will stop the lithium battery draining any more than around 3v (exact amount differs between manufacturers or even model to model)"
Mark, that is common knowledge. What is your point?
"3/ Lithium batteries have an extremely low self discharge rate, if your lithium batteries are discharging quickly with the camera off then there is a problem somewhere in the camera."
Mark, most normal lithium batteries have a low self discharge rate. However, I have cheaper lithiums that got funky after only six months of use. They won't charge up as high, and they self discharge faster. It is not a problem of the camera.
"Your still talking a couple of years though, so we all use our batteries as we need them and simply replace them when they start to fail."
Or, six months.
"Some say i'm cautious to the point of being slightly paranoid, but in the 10 years or so i've been using lithium batteries, often several times a week i have personally not yet had any problems, so it leads me to believe i must be doing something right."
You can't help it if people are out to get you. You have a right to be slightly paranoid.
"So for me personally i would buy the OEM canon batteries."
The Canon batteries are the highest priced. I've found brands that seem to be 98% as good, but with a price of about 20%.
–B.G.–