"That night I slept with the door open (10 was the low that night) I think if I would have left it shut. The fabric would have done its thing and I would have had less of a problem."
Speeping with the door closed would have increated the temperature inside and the higher temperature would have helped reduce condensation.
Josh there are two types of water proof breathable fabrics on the market. Event has small holes in it that are too small for water to go through but air and vapor. Fabrics like event have two breathability specs, CFM (air flow through the fabric), grams of water per square meter per unit of time.
The second type of WPB fabric on the market is moisture permeable but not air permeable. In these fabrics (including PacLite) water condenses on the inside surface of the membrane and soaks in. The membrane is like wood. As the membrane absorbs water some works it way to the outside surface of the membrane where it is allow to evaporate off. Paclite like most polyurethane based WPB fabrics do not have CFM rating since air doesn't flow through the membrane. They only have a grams per square meter per day rating which is typically less than event. One consequence of moisture permeable fabrics is that the often do not breath well if at all in very low humidity environments. humidity inside a Packlite rain jacket needs to get high before it will start to transport moisture through.
Colin is correst when he said"
"It will do an even better job of trapping moisture in the down when temperatures are low. Pac Lite, like all Goretex products, can only move moisture out that has condensed, and is a liquid, on the inner surface of the membrane. If the air temperature in your shelter is 10F, the water that condenses on the inner side of the Pac Lite membrane will freeze there, and moisture transport through the membrane will be zero."
Moisture from your skin will not get through a packlite quilt. It will only build up condense and then freeze.
If you want to protect your quilt from condensation drips from the roof of your hooped Bivy, Event is a much better choice. However it is overkill for your applications. Event has a water proof rating, or hydrostic head, is 25000mm. This means that the pressure generated by a columb of water 25000mm high will not get through the membrane. This is great for heavy rain but it does to some extent reduce the breathability (CFM). A water resistance fabric like Tyvek or Gore Dryloft (now discontinued) would be a better choise.
Like Event, Tyvek has small holes so air and vapor can pass through. However unlike Event, Tyvek 1443 has a hydrostatic head rating of only 800mm (about 30 inches). Drips from the top of your bivy will not get through it. Unfortunately I have not sen a CFM rating for Tyvek but I believe it is quite high. You can get Tyvek 1443 from amazon.com for $3.50 a yard. unfortunately I don't know if anyone has ever made a quilt from it.