Judy,
it's late, so I don't want to take the hour or so to do diagrams and post them; but I think we could be using different terms for different things.
What you were calling a flat felled seam, before you looked it up, may be what I call a faux felled seam. It looks like a flat felled seam without close inspection, but one of the two stitch lines, the one first sewn, goes through only two layers of fabric. And when the seam is stressed, the stitch holes in just one of those layers are exposed to the outside. Tried to show this in the diagram on the other thread.
From your discussion, I hope readers are getting a clear idea that the seams in your tents are not the faux-felled, but are the best quality.
Not having your skill and machines, I make the flat felled seam in the manner described on the other thread. Many don't like it because it requires developing a skill, and is hard. A lot of worthwhile things are hard, and I bet you know that as well or better than I. For MYOGers, the pins are necessary for the reasons restated by Roger on the other thread. Because the pins are pulled out before reaching the needle, and penetrate only through the four layers between the stitch lines, I have not found them to be a problem after sealing and making sure the sealer gets worked into the holes.
Using a lapping attachment and double needles as you are skilled and able to do, it of course goes much faster. But for both of us, the stitch holes are going through three or four layers of fabric. On mine of course, the stitch holes are not as neat. That's why I carefully select the thread color to blend in with the fabric, and if the materials are different colors, will even use different colored threads above and below the seam. I also spend a lot of time to make sure the stitches are loose enough to not pucker the seam, and allow the silnylon to stretch; but are also tight enough to lie flat aganst the fabric with no slight loops that will eventually find something to catch on and break. The outcome just looks a whole lot better, especially when an amateur sewer is at work. But I get a product that is exactly what I want, and can't be bought for any amount of $. Now that is worth plenty, IMO.
You may be right about the flat felled seam being stronger than many others. The silicone coat on the nylon reinforces it somewhat, but if stitches are close to a raw edge, and enought tension is applied, they will pull right out through the edge of the fabric coated or not. But I think the problem with the faux felled seam, sometimes called the 'rolled' seam, is the single layer of fabric with stitch holes that are exposed to the elements.
Best wishes.
PS – Judy, Looked through the many seams illustrated on the link you posted, and the closest one to what I called the 'faux' felled seam is labeled 'LScs' near the bottom of the scroll. But the diagram fails to show what happens when the seam is tensioned. Was trying to show that in my diagram on the other thread. Perhaps I will call it the 'rolled' seam from now on. I can understand why some folks might not like their work being referred to as 'faux.' It is better than some of those seams on the link, which are pretty awful. May use it to connect a vestibule cover and insect netting door to a main canopy, but not on the canopy itself over my head.