"Bottom line; people plan all year and spend 1k+ on travel to do what I do on an average three-day weekend."
I try to live by the same goal.
I've done an overnight on the last 3 weekends, was car camping for two nights the weekend before that.
Backpacking is typically at least once/twice a month with bigger trips every longer break I get.
I surf 4-5 days/week, sometimes more, typically before work.
Just got in from my 3rd trail run this week, a quick 5K in a local canyon. Will climb something much bigger this weekend, likely on snowshoe.
Fortunately, I live 1/2 mile from the Angeles National Forest border. But I work 3 miles from the beach. Yes, I do a lot of driving, but my work hours are good and I do what I can to take full advantage of the situation.
Just got the permits for 7 days in the High Sierra early summer.
Camping and running across Joshua Tree in early May.
Camping in Death Valley with the family on President's weekend.
My family also road trips (camping) for 3 weeks every summer.
I think I can say I get out a lot, even with a wife and two kids, and a full time job.
Thankfully, they're either supportive or come with me….