I've got the same cabelas rod and have been very happy with it.
I'm trying to replace the frying pan with a stainless mesh cut to fit the thermojet stove. It weighs 14 grams. I'm going to try it out in a couple of days in desolation wilderness. Hopefully it won't stick too much.
I got the mesh at: http://www.twpinc.com/twpinc/control/product/~category_id=TWPCAT_316Welded/~product_id=001X001WT0470W48T
The sample size is more than enough for the small grill.

