Hi, I'm new here! I never thought I'd be interested in backpacking, even though I like hiking and I like camping, because carrying heavy loads while hiking sounded awful. I recently learned about (ultra-)light backpacking while looking for ways to reduce the volume of my gear after an unpleasant experience hauling gear while reaching a campsite by public transportation, and it's been eye-opening. My partner and I are now planning on doing a short backpacking trip next summer, and the thing I'm having difficulty with is figuring out what would really work for us as a shelter. I would love to hear from people who've used various lightweight shelters.
Here's what we want/need in a shelter:
– my partner and I both use 25" wide sleeping pads (or rather, I just got a 25" neoair and she's looking to replace her heavy and narrow camping mat with a light, compact 25" wide pad by next summer), so it needs to be at least 50" wide. This is non-negotiable: we both really like elbow space, and I've discovered that my back and arms hurt to the point of making me non-functional the next day if I try to sleep on my back on a 20" wide pad (and yes, I'm a back sleeper). However, we're fairly short – I'm 5'7" and she's 5'5" or 5'6".
– we'll be using it in the summer in New England, which means that it doesn't need to withstand any extreme weather, but there will be lots of mosquitos. I'm totally okay with needing something else if we become interested in backpacking in the fall or spring (or winter?!).
– Bug protection: I really need to have a place to escape from mosquitos in the evening and while I'm sleeping.
– Space for both of us to sit up, but we're fine with being close together. :D
– No bivy bags: I tried one and started to freak out from claustrophobia immediately. I'm pretty sure that even if I convinced myself to not panic while awake, half waking up in the middle of the night in one would be another story.
I've been looking at the Tarptent Double Rainbow, Rainshadow 2, and StratoSpire 2, the SMD Lunar Duo Explorer, and the LightHeart Gear Duo. The ZPacks Hexamid Twin Tent looks awesome, but it's too narrow near the ends for two 25" wide pads and is a little pricy for us. However, I'm sure there are a bunch of options that fit my criteria that I've overlooked, so please do tell me about them.
There's something that I really want in a shelter that our current car-camping tent doesn't really have, but I'm not sure it exists/is possible. In the summer here, a lot of the time most of the night will be dry but there'll be a drizzle for a while around dawn. It would really improve my experience to not have the fly on when it's not raining, but we always put it on anyway if there's a possibility of rain because getting rained on at dawn is unpleasant. I would *really* like to have a shelter where we can start out the night without a solid fabric surrounding us (but still be protected from bugs), and be able to get up when it starts to drizzle and quickly unfurl something to protect us from the rain. Sleeping on a ground sheet (with a mesh thingy over us I guess) next to the tent and moving into it if it starts to rain isn't an option for us because although I sleep lightly and am woken up by a few drops of water or a change in the wind, my partner sleeps fairly heavily and would hate a plan that would require her to get up and move into the tent in the middle of the night. Is there anything that would work for that? Maybe a mesh inner tent with a tarp? I'm kind of leery of setting up a tarp on my own in a hurry in the middle of the night though, it seems like there's a lot of tensioning and staking that has to happen. If I'm really off base with that impression, please correct me.






