I can understand where he is coming from though-I cannot wear headnets either. Part of my issue is I have periodic bouts of vertigo migraines, and certain things can trigger migraines (normal ones). Laying in bed looking at a ceiling fan is murder for my eyes, and I'd rather get bit than wear a headnet! I'll even add that I don't wear hoods on my jackets, I can get disoriented if I cannot hear clearly.
One of my hiking partners, dani, suffers bad migraines-hers can be caused just by looking at hardwood flooring and light flickering-or worse, driving in fog in daytime.
Thing is there really isn't much you can do for things that set you off, besides avoiding them. (Unless you have maybe an ear infection, those can cause balance issues.)
On the Dr note, most regular Dr's are useless for diagnosis! I eventually had to see a neurologist this fall and have a couple MRI's before I finally got a diagnosis. This took me a long time, with bad diagnosis in between.
honestly? Just take the bugs.