i find many people use gear purchases as a substitute as what they would LIKE to do … because of time, lack of will, family or other such, the gear becomes the psychological crutch for the lack of time outdoors
i myself have been guilty of this in the past … fortunately with the ability to climb 5 days a week weather permitting, this year … ive found myself LESS interested in gear unless i need it … the gear i have been purchasing has been to replace "consumable" items such as climbing shoes, and older ropes
i find that the people i see who go out often, just do it … regardless of having the "perfect" setup or not … theyll make do and spend the money on gas, food, etc … now there are some gear hoars as well who go out alot, but those tend to rotate through their gear pretty quick … and use it well
while there is no doubt that having the right gear does help … at the end of the day i tell people that the shiny new dead bird harness does not make you a better climber even though it costs 3x more … nor will all those fancy shiny cams make you a safer climber if you dont get the mileage to learn how to place em …
my advice to people is to get the gear you need … no more than that … and spend the rest of the money on courses, trips, beer and women
and dont worry about using up yr gear … its there to give you a good time …